what it means to be a B

to be a "b" or a "butcher" (as maher calls it), means to be crabby. unpleasant. spiteful. unapologetic (somewhat). that is my definition, and hey, i should know.

so today on the bus tessa and i were talking about what it means to be a 'b'. well, i was talking/openly criticizing at her because she thinks she is a 'b' but in fact she is just a nice quiet greek when people are around (and by people i mean acquaintances, class mates, the like).  sure, we can pretend that we're the Blairs of the Ball when we're alone, privately bitching (verb usage) on the bus. but, really, on a public level, are we bitches? i can answer for only one of us, and that would be.. tessa. she is not. just...nice..quiet..greek.

here's the telling difference i used to determine this finite (haha sonia) situation: she talks about haters behind their back. but...would she tell someone who is "hitting on" her to:

a.) "fuck off."
or
b.) "um..."



well, i think that made the point quite clear, if not crystal. but don't worry texmex, you can still refer to yourself as Blair if i get to be Megan Fox!  haha...oh good times.